Positivity goes a long way.
That’s the message Laura Carstensen delivers in her TedTalks video, Older
people are happier. Carstensen, a psychologist and director of the
Stanford Center on Longevity, has "extensively studied the effects on well being
of extended lifetimes." In this video, she lightheartedly demonstrates through a
series of studies that older people are happier people.
How?
She discovered that with age, there are changes in
our ability to monitor our own lifetimes. Younger people are trying to soak up
all the information they can by taking risks, exploring, and meeting new people
because everything is interesting and there’s always something more to see or
do. But…
“As we age, our time horizons grow shorter, and our goals
change,” Carstensen says in the video. “When
we recognize we don’t have all the time in the world we see our priorities most
clearly. We take less notice of trivial
matters, and we savour life. We’re more
appreciative, more open to reconciliation.
We invest in more emotionally important parts of life and life gets
better. So we’re happier, day-to-day.”
The paradox of aging isn’t in what there is to dwell on, but
in what there is to look forward to. As
the aging adult encounters each curve ball that continues to be thrown in this game
called life, they can choose whether or not it is worth their time to dwell on
the situation. By focusing on what
matters, life becomes more enticing, and the world continues to open up with
opportunity.
To watch the 12 minute video of Laura Carstensen's talk, click below.